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Infelicitous Sex

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  16 February 2009

Emily Sherwin
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University of San Diego

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Proposing and consenting to sex are things that ordinary people manage to do all the time, yet legal regulation of sex seems to be an intractable problem. No one is satisfied with rape law, but no one knows quite what to do about it.

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10. Professor Dripps's illustration is the Bathhouse Encounter. Dripps, , Beyond Rape, supra note 1 at 1788–89.Google Scholar

11. Utilitarian theory provides another reason to be concerned with consent to sex: Mutual consent is evidence that both parties expect sex to add to their welfare. Utility suggests, too, that we should worry about the quality of consent, since faulty information or a serious distortion of preferences upsets the assumption of utility. At the same time, any rule that limits the effect of consent or attaches risks to a proposal of sex carries a cost in the form of less consensual sex. Of course, nothing in utilitarian theory requires that the benefit must take the form of sexual pleasure. In developing an economic model of sexual behavior, Judge Posner identifies three types of benefit people may derive from sex: “procreative, hedonistic, and sociable” (the last of which includes commercial relationships). Posner, R.A., Sex and Reason 111–12 (1992).Google Scholar The outline of Posner's theory of rational choice in sexual relations is set out in id. at 111–15. Some of the externalities of consensual sex are discussed in id. at 183–99.

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[T]o account for the fact that [sex] is spoken about, to discover who does the speaking, the positions and viewpoints from which they speak, the institutions which prompt people to speak about it and which store and distribute the things that are said. What is at issue, briefly, is the over-all “discursive fact,” the way in which sex is “put into discourse.” Hence, too, my main concern will be to locate the forms of power, the channels it takes, and the discourses it permeates in order to reach the most tenuous and individual modes of behavior, the paths that give it access to the rare or scarcely perceivable forms of desire, how it penetrates and controls everyday pleasure.

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25. See Fuller, , supra note 4 at 237–44Google Scholar (on the superiority of customary law in intimate relations).

26. See Feinberg, , supra note 4 at 172–75Google Scholar (distinguishing “actual consent” from “dispositional consent”).

27. Austin, , supra note 3 at 155–57Google Scholar; Searle, J.R., Expression and Meaning: Studies in the Theory of Speech Acts 1520 (1979).Google ScholarSee also Feinberg, , supra note 4 at 178Google Scholar (on consent as a performative).

Austin referred to consent both in his discussion of exercitives—utterances used for “the exercizing of powers, rights, or influence”—and in his discussion of “commissives,” which are used “to commit the speaker to a certain course of action.” Austin, , supra note 3 at 151. 156. 157–58.Google Scholar I prefer the former category because it captures the role consent plays in a system of rights and duties.

Searle's category of “declaratives” is a more precise fit: “successful performance [of a declarative] brings about the correspondence between the prepositional content [of the declaration] and reality.” Searle, , supra at 16.Google Scholar

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31. On the connection between speech acts and intentional state—that is, mental states or mental events directed at objects in the world—see Searle, , supra note 30 at 413, 163–79.Google ScholarSee also Austin, , supra note 3 at 3940 (insincerity).Google Scholar

The word decision comes from the Latin decidere, which means “to cut from.” Oxford English Dictionary, Vol. III 760 (2d ed. 1991).Google Scholar The word consent comes from the Latin consentire, which means, interestingly, “to feel (something) together.” Id., Vol. II 332.

32. Austin's criteria for a successful speech act are set out in Austin, , supra note 3 at 1323.Google ScholarSee also Searle, J., What Is a Speech Act?, in The Philosophy of Language 39, 4651Google Scholar (Searle, J.R. ed., 1971Google Scholar) (necessary and sufficient conditions for performance of the act of promising).

Austin excluded defects such as fraud and duress from his discussion of speech act infelicities, classing these as “dimensions of unsatisfactoriness to which all actions are subject Austin, , supra at 21.Google Scholar Because these defects are important to my analysis of consent to sex, I am using the term infelicity in a more comprehensive sense.

33. See Austin, , supra note 3 at 1517Google Scholar (misfires, abuses, and Boolean algebra).

34. I doubt it is useful to say that the nature of consent differs from one context to another, so that consent to sex is a unique type of act. Yet, consent in different contexts is susceptible to different types of infelicity, and different considerations will bear on which infelicities should invalidate the act.

35. Austin, , supra note 3 at 3940.Google Scholar

36. Searle, , supra note 32 at 50.Google Scholar There is a threshold problem of capacity—whether the speaker is capable of forming the requisite mental state. This is a significant problem for consent to sex, not because we should doubt the general capacity of women to consent, but because sexual mistakes often take place when those involved have had too much to drink. See, e.g., Commonwealth v.Berkowitz, 641 A.2d 1161, 1163 (Pa. 1994)Google Scholar (a dormitory martini); State v. Rusk, 424 A.2d 720, 721 (Md. 1981)Google Scholar (bar-hopping). A woman who is drunk to the point of incoherence may be too far removed from her accustomed self to make what we think of as a decision, and a man who has sex with her, at least when reasonably sober himself, is engaged in a particularly unattractive form of exploitation. Beyond that, capacity to consent is a difficult question of degree, complicated by the problem of the defendant's perceptions. See Dressier, J., Understanding Criminal Law §§24, 02–24. 03 (1995)Google Scholar (criticizing traditional rules on voluntary intoxication); Feinberg, , supra note 4 at 335–37Google Scholar (a standard of substantial impairment). On the effect of a reasonable mistake about consent, see note 41 infra.

37. See Hart, , supra note 4 at 1113, 4450Google Scholar (retribution in distribution). See also West, , supra note 1 at 1459Google Scholar (recognizing that some sexual bargains she views as illegitimate are nevertheless beyond the reach of “sensible” criminal law).

38. See note 23 and accompanying text, supra.

39. Compare, e.g., Paul, Pope John II, supra note 12, §23 at 4142Google Scholar (“the two meanings, unitive and procreative” of human sexuality) with Chamallas, . supra note 1 at 784Google Scholar (pleasure and intimacy).

40. “No” might mean “not yet,” or “persuade me,” or “make me.” See Paglia, C., Sex, Art, and American Culture 5 (1992)Google Scholar (“‘no’ has always been, and always will be part of the dangerous, alluring courtship ritual of sex and seduction”); Husak, D.N. and Thomas, G.G. III, Date Rape, Social Convention, and Reasonable Mistakes, 11 L, & Phil 95, 122–23 (1992) (on current conventions).CrossRefGoogle Scholar

41. See Feinberg, , supra note 4 at 272Google Scholar (misunderstanding). If a rape prosecution ensues, the probable effect is acquittal. If rape is understood to require a culpable state of mind, the jury is likely to be instructed to acquit if the man's understanding falls within the range of custom. See, e.g., People v. Mayberry, 542 P.2d 1337, 1344–47 (Cal. 1975)Google Scholar (reasonable mistake as a defense); Reynolds v. State. 644 P.2d 621. 625–27 (Alaska App. 1983)Google Scholar (reckless disregard required for conviction); Dressier, , supra note 36, §33.06 at 526–27Google Scholar; Husak, and Thomas, , supra note 40 at 99.Google ScholarSee also Fletcher, G.P., Rethinking Criminal Law 701–02 (1978)Google Scholar (viewing consent as a justificiation, a mistake about consent should not excuse unless reasonable). But see State v. Reed, 479 A.2d 1291, 1295–96 (Me. 1984)Google Scholar (rape does not require a culpable state of mind); Commonwealth v. Williams. 439 A.2d 765, 769 (Pa. Super. 1982)Google Scholar (reasonable mistake is not a defense); Estrich, , supra note 1 at 9296Google Scholar (focus of American courts is on force rather than defendant's state of mind).

42. Here is the fullest list I can think of:

no fierce resistance

no protest

no protest after inquiry

no protest after a prescribed inquiry

explicit language of consent

explicit, prescribed language of consent

explicit consent after inquiry

explicit consent after a prescribed inquiry

For the argument that some legally recognized convention is needed, see Schulhofer, S.J., The Gender Question in Criminal Law, in Crime, Culpability, and Remedy 105, 132–33Google Scholar (Paul, E.F., Miller, F.D., and Paul, J. eds., 1990).Google Scholar

43. See Wisc. Stat. Ann. §940.225(4) (1982 & Supp. 1994)Google Scholar (consent means “words or overt actions… indicating a freely given agreement to have sexual intercourse”); Schulhofer, , supra note 1 at 7177Google Scholar; Schulhofer, , supra note 42 at 133Google Scholar (“anything less than an explicit ‘yes’ should not count as consent”). See also Combating Rape on Campus in a Class on Sexual Consent, New York Times, 09 25, 1993Google Scholar (describing the Antioch College sexual offense policy).

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45. See Atkinson, T.E., Handbook of the Law of Wills 291345 (2d ed. 1953)Google Scholar (execution of wills); Brown, R.A., The Law of Personal Property 7879Google Scholar (3d ed., Raushenbush, W.B. ed., 1975)Google Scholar (delivery of gifts). See also Fuller, , supra note 29 at 800–06Google Scholar (the functions of legal formalities). One possibility for sex is a rule that formal marriage (and only formal marriage) operates as consent. But, in modern times, this is not likely to be well received by men or women.

46. See Utah Code Ann. §76–4–406(1) (1989) (no consent if the “victim expresses lack of consent through words or conduct”). For arguments in favor of a “no” rule, see Estrich, , supra note 1 at 98103Google Scholar; Dripps, , Beyond Rape, supra note 1 at 1803–04Google Scholar. See also Berger, V., Review Essay: Not So Simple Rape, 7 Crim. Justice Ethics 69, 7476 (1988)CrossRefGoogle Scholar (an appellate court should not overturn the determination of a jury that “no” meant no consent).

47. See Estrich, , supra note 1 at 102, 104Google Scholar. See generally Feinberg, J., The Expressive Function of Punishment, in Doing and Deserving 95 (1970).Google Scholar

48. For an argument against such a rule, see Husak, and Thomas, , supra note 40 at 113, 117–23Google Scholar. Professors Husak and Thomas suggest that for reasons of justice, the question what constitutes a reasonable mistake (and hence a defense) should be answered empirically, acccording to existing conventions for consent or nonconsent to sex. The difficulty with this position is that—as the authors demonstrate—there is no generally accepted convention by which a woman can effectively refuse consent, short of strong physical resistance. More precisely, there is no act, verbal or nonverbal, that a man could not reasonably take to be consistent with consent, based on existing practices.

49. Profesor Schulhofer makes this point. Schulhofer, , supra note 1 at 4244.Google Scholar

50. See, e.g., Model Penal Code §2.02(9); Dressler, , supra note 36, §13.01 at 141–44.Google Scholar

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53. See, e.g., Dripps, , supra note 1 at 1804–07Google Scholar (“sexual expropriation” as a serious misdemeanor or a minor felony). I agree with Professor Dripps that a rape carried out by force or threat of force should be punished much more severely than sex affected by the lesser infelicities with which this article is concerned. See id. at 1797–99.

54. See Estrich, , supra note 1 at 103Google Scholar (sex following a stated no is “a serious offense that should be called ‘rape’”).

55. Cf. Murphy, J.G.. Consent, Coercion, and Hard Choices, 67 Va. L. Rev. 79, 9294 (1981)CrossRefGoogle Scholar (arguing, with respect to political consent, that consent cannot be inferred from silence unless there is a feasible and not too onerous means of dissent).

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60. The question of what interferences are impermissible can be approached in several different ways. Professor Feinberg is interested primarily in the effect of coercive pressure or misinformation on the decision-making process of the person giving consent. Feinberg, , supra note 4 at 213–25Google Scholar. Professor Murphy is interested in the wrongful character of the coercion. Murphy, , supra note 55 at 8388.Google Scholar

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