Communication is always ambiguous and always an expression of latent violence. But when this description of violence is ontologized, when one sees “nothing but” violence in it, one misses the essential point, namely, that the critical power to put a stop to violence without reproducing it in new forms can only dwell in the telos of mutual understanding and our orientation to this goal.

Compassion brings inner strength, and compassion also brings truth… Compassion involves a feeling of closeness to others, a respect and affection that is not based on others' attitudes towards us. We tend to feel affection for people who are important to us. That kind of close feeling does not extend to our enemies – those who think ill of us. Genuine compassion, on the other hand, sees that others, just like us, want a happy and successful life and do not want to suffer. That kind of feeling and concern can be extended to friend and enemy alike, regardless of their feelings towards us. That's genuine compassion.

This implies integration in the sense of all relating to all, as opposed to fragmentation, and holism, the use of many faculties in all parties, as opposed to segmentation.