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Courtship Violence and Social Control: Does Gender Matter?

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  01 July 2024

Susan L. Miller  and
Sally S. Simpson
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Abstract

In this exploratory study, we ask whether perceptions of and responses to violence in dating relationships are gendered and whether the factors that affect male perceptions also influence females. Using the social control and feminist literatures as a guide, we explore gender differences in perception of sanction risk and attitudes toward resolution of violence when it occurs. Our data reveal several differences in male and female perceptions of formal and informal sanctions (attachment to significant others and stigmatic costs)—although not always in the expected direction—and show that different factors influence male and female perceptions of sanction likelihood and costs. We also find that females are more likely than males to seek relationship termination, informal controls, or formal justice outcomes if assaulted by their partner. However, the conditions that stimulate victims to consider these decisions vary by gender. These findings are discussed, along with implications for further research.

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Law & Society Review , Volume 25 , Issue 2 , 1991 , pp. 335 - 365
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Copyright © 1991 by The Law and Society Association

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Footnotes

Order of authorship is determined alphabetically. Thanks to the University of Maryland Computer Science Center for computer support as well as to the Editor and anonymous reviewers for helpful comments on earlier drafts.

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