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Preface

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  18 February 2010

Michael J. Zimmerman
Affiliation:
University of North Carolina, Greensboro
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On October 18,1993, the News and Record of Greensboro, North Carolina, carried the following item:

Dear Ann Landers: I am 37 years old and have never married. I dated a 35-year-old divorced man for five years. “Jack” and I were very much in love. I wore his engagement ring for a year, and we talked of marriage, but we bickered a lot. I assumed this was just our style of communication.

We decided to get premarital counseling about our never-ending arguments. One counselor said our values were too different. Another counselor said we were made for each other. I postponed the wedding because Jack wouldn't continue with the counseling. Also, he wanted to elope, and I wanted a church wedding.

Last January, I went over to Jack's house and caught him with his secretary. It turned out this 21-year-old gorgeous thing had moved in with him. Jack insists that he doesn't love her, but she cooks and cleans for him, which I never did.

Ann, we've been seeing each other behind the secretary's back. We agree that we love each other, but he's afraid he hasn't the will-power or self-discipline to remain true to me. I still want to marry him.

I went to a doctor who told me I was depressed. I've tried dating other men, but I have no desire for them. What should I do?

Indianapolis Dilemma

I record this for two reasons. First, its comic value. Perhaps, as you were reading it, a slight smile played over your lips. I hope so; the rest of this book is dead serious and will afford very little opportunity for amusement.

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Print publication year: 1996

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  • Preface
  • Michael J. Zimmerman, University of North Carolina, Greensboro
  • Book: The Concept of Moral Obligation
  • Online publication: 18 February 2010
  • Chapter DOI: https://doi.org/10.1017/CBO9780511624681.001
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  • Preface
  • Michael J. Zimmerman, University of North Carolina, Greensboro
  • Book: The Concept of Moral Obligation
  • Online publication: 18 February 2010
  • Chapter DOI: https://doi.org/10.1017/CBO9780511624681.001
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  • Preface
  • Michael J. Zimmerman, University of North Carolina, Greensboro
  • Book: The Concept of Moral Obligation
  • Online publication: 18 February 2010
  • Chapter DOI: https://doi.org/10.1017/CBO9780511624681.001
Available formats
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