When Col. Thomas Deane Pearse, a high-ranking officer in the East India Company died in 1789, his lengthy will left numerous instructions about how he wanted his estate managed after his death. His will and its many codicils supplemented his military memoir, serving as an autobiographical account of his familial attachments. Like many other men, from high-ranking military and civil servants to ordinary merchants and rank-and-file soldiers, Pearse's bequests focused on the household and family he had with a native female companion. In making financial arrangements for their families, British men like Pearse acknowledged their paternal obligations, while remaining savvy about protecting their estates and maintaining their social standing. Negotiating between expressions of familial sentiment while carefully calculating the bequest that each family member deserved, British men were able to act as good patriarchs, providing for their families, and enforcing the household hierarchies that put them at the head of the table.