There are substantial costs in relocating and establishing a new identity, and in the vast majority of cases it is unnecessary. Moving away disrupts work, schooling and social ties. It is both emotionally and financially draining, especially if you have already invested in additional home security measures. Worst of all, your sacrifice may be in vain if the stalker pursues you to your next address, some stalkers proving more than equal to this challenge.

If you are seriously contemplating such action, first talk with your therapist, the police or your victims of crime support agency. Ask them what else could be done to avoid such drastic measures and for a realistic appraisal of your stalker's likelihood of tracking you down at your next address. Importantly, ask what measures need to be taken if you do move in order to minimize the likelihood of being found.

Stalking that arises between neighbours, when it is solely confined to that neighbourhood, is usually resolved by the victim's relocation. However, stalkers who are determined to maintain a relationship, particularly intimacy seekers and the rejected, have considerably more invested in their victims and will seldom give them up so easily. If fears for your safety dictate that relocation is the last available option you must ensure that you leave as few clues as possible to your new address.