In 1584, fearing death, Eleanor Cumpayne, a single woman in the
parish
of Halesowen (Worcestershire), commended her soul to almighty God
and her body to the earth, divided her sheep and money amongst her
godchildren, relatives and friends, and placed particular trust in her
cousin, Margery Cumpayne, who, amongst other duties, was to bestow
the sum of 20s at her funeral. Unlike most testators, Eleanor Cumpayne
survived this fearful illness, dying in the summer eight years later. Eleanor
is also unusual because the detailed provisions establishing her as a single
woman that were made 25 years before her death also survive. In his will
her father, George, bequeathed to her for her natural life a chamber next
to the fire in his house in Hill, a garden, an acre of land, 3s 4d annually,
a cow called Fillpayle, a mare, bedding, the best pot and pan, six sheep
which were to be kept with the rest of the family's sheep and also,
at the
death of her mother, a pasture. The experience of Eleanor Cumpayne, living
semi-independently as a
single woman with the assistance of her family, suggests that the idea
that
early modern society expected all women to marry needs closer
examination. Such a view can indeed be found in prescriptive literature.
The author of The law's resolutions of women's rights
(1632) stated without
hesitation that all women ‘are understood either married or to be
married’. For him women were defined by their marital status, and
marriage was the natural expectation for all women.
Contemporary authors based their ideas of the necessity of marriage
for
women on two main arguments: first, that marriage was natural and
demanded by scripture, particularly as a consequence of the Fall, which
imposed on women the twin obligations of childbearing and subjection to
the authority of a husband; and second, that marriage was an economic
necessity, a notion encapsulated in the well-known adage that ‘To
thrive
one must wive.’ The strength of these arguments in preventing remaining
unmarried from seeming to be a viable and attractive option for early
modern women is the subject of this article. In particular, I shall
concentrate on the second argument, the economic dimension, since it was
in this respect, as the experience of Eleanor Cumpayne suggests, that
social attitudes did most to encourage the possibility of women remaining
unmarried.