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A Tangled Web: Deception in Everyday Dementia Care

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  29 June 2021

Abstract

Care workers and families often engage in deception in everyday interactions with people affected by dementia. While benevolent deception can be justified, there are often more respectful and less risky ways to help people with dementia seeking to make sense of their lives.

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© 2021 The Author(s)

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