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8 - Communication as a Source of Misunderstanding and a Resource for Responding to the Stress of Parental Caregiving

from Part III - Uncertainty in Health and Relationships

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  09 November 2018

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Teresa Keeler
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Jennifer A. Theiss  and
Kathryn Greene
Jennifer A. Theiss
Affiliation:
Rutgers University, New Jersey
Kathryn Greene
Affiliation:
Rutgers University, New Jersey
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Contemporary Studies on Relationships, Health, and Wellness , pp. 160 - 183
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Print publication year: 2018

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