Book contents
- Frontmatter
- Contents
- Thank You
- Today's World
- Glossary
- The Mayoress
- The Pioneer
- Dadi Ma the Motivator
- From Sylhet to Ilkley
- Music ‘n’ Motherhood
- Identity
- No Mercy!
- Journey to the House of Allah
- I have a Dream!
- From Roots to Routes
- Jihad
- The Preacher’s Voice
- Salaam Namaste
- The Visionary
- Turning Pennies into Pounds
- Busing in the Immigrants
- White Abbey Road
- The Spiritual Tourist
- Burning Ambitions
- Rags to Riches
- Final Thoughts
Rags to Riches
Published online by Cambridge University Press: 16 July 2022
- Frontmatter
- Contents
- Thank You
- Today's World
- Glossary
- The Mayoress
- The Pioneer
- Dadi Ma the Motivator
- From Sylhet to Ilkley
- Music ‘n’ Motherhood
- Identity
- No Mercy!
- Journey to the House of Allah
- I have a Dream!
- From Roots to Routes
- Jihad
- The Preacher’s Voice
- Salaam Namaste
- The Visionary
- Turning Pennies into Pounds
- Busing in the Immigrants
- White Abbey Road
- The Spiritual Tourist
- Burning Ambitions
- Rags to Riches
- Final Thoughts
Summary
I asked God for strength that I might achieve. I was made weak that I may learn humbly to obey. I asked for health that I might do greater things. I was given infirmity that I might do better things. I asked for riches that I might be happy. I was given poverty that I might be wise. I asked for power that I might have the praise of men. I was given weakness that I might feel the need of God. I asked for all things that I might enjoy life. I was given life that I might enjoy all things. I got nothing that I asked for, but everything that I hoped for. Almost despite myself, my unspoken prayers were answered. I am, among all men, most richly blessed. (Anon)
I come from a quite poor working-class family background, a big family. There were seven of us; I’ve got three brothers and three sisters. I’m the sixth, I’ve got one brother younger than me. My dad was Canadian. My mum was English, from Cullingworth, really poor background; you know my mum struggled all her life. She did three jobs – she worked in the mills, she cleaned for people, she was an old people's help. My dad had mental health problems so although he worked very hard when we were younger, as he got a bit older in life he didn't really. I remember him being poorly most of the time – you know, very depressed, staying in the house all the time, not doing anything with his life and it was really hard for my mum. She really struggled.
My mum passed away when I was 13. My dad spent two years in his bedroom and then passed away as well. My mother had converted from being a Methodist to being a Catholic and she was a very very strong church goer. We were raised as quite strict Catholics. For me, it just meant we always had to go to church on Sundays and my mum tried to encourage us to pray before we went to sleep, not that any of us did that much, and just to live a good honest life really, to think about others before you think of yourself.
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- Our stories, our LivesInspiring Muslim Women's Voices, pp. 119 - 124Publisher: Bristol University PressPrint publication year: 2009