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The biggest thing for me about being a single parent is the fact that people do seem to think that it defines you in some way.

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  25 April 2023

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We didn’t have a lot of money growing up when I was a child. My mum was on her own from when I was quite a young age, so I got used to that and know how to spend accordingly. It’s been more difficult recently because I’ve been trying to do some voluntary work to try and get better job prospects, but that means paying for my daughter to go to nursery and that’s where it’s really hit me. I’ve just taken her out of there until she gets a free funded place.

I feel like there is a huge cloud of doubt over this country. The current government has made a lot of big changes, which affect all sorts of people, but in my opinion it’s the lack of information about these changes that has been the biggest problem. Brexit is the best example of this; even now none of us knows what will really happen when it all goes through.

Another one is the changes to the benefit system with Universal Credit. We all know it’s happening, but not when it will happen to us, and I haven’t been given much information at all on what it even is. All they are telling us is that we should be prepared to wait a length of time for payments and that we should have money put aside for this. I don’t know anyone in my financial situation who would be able to do this. Making changes is one thing, but keeping people in the dark about what’s happening to their own country and their own lives is unfair and shouldn’t be necessary.

As a single parent to my daughter from before she was even born, the biggest effect on me has been budget cuts to the NHS and family services. This was noticeable when she was born 18 months ago, but has become even worse now, with support being aimed mainly at parents who are in dire need. They should of course get that support, but it needs to be offered to everyone to prevent it getting that bad in the first place.

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Invisible Britain
Portraits of Hope and Resilience
, pp. 60
Publisher: Bristol University Press
Print publication year: 2018

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